by Douglas S. Kalman MS, RD, FACN
Have you ever found
that for whatever the reason, your motivation to obtain a certain goal is just
not there? You have already thought about what it is that you would like to
accomplish; you have a mind eye's view of what you want to look like when you
get to your goal. But for some reason, you cannot get out of the starting
blocks!
The fitness and
weight loss goal is one that collectively, many Americans want to tackle over
the next few months. Most people start their programs in the first week of
January (the New Year). If youıre the type of person who has good intentions but
doesn't act on them, then read on for a real strategy which you can use to
achieve outstanding results in no time at all!
Those of you
wanting some real motivation should check out Lee Labrada's 12 week Lean body
Challenge, which starts on January 10th. Just click here for more information www.leanbodychallenge.com
Don't Pre-Contemplate
Psychologists will
tell you that when one starts thinking about a particular goal or accomplishment
that they wish to achieve they are in the "pre-contemplation stage."
Goal setting is
something that we are all asked to do.
Teachers are asked
to submit lesson plans so that the various coordinators of education can see if
their plans will meet what are thought to be correct learning milestones. In
other words, educators and the classroom teachers collaborate so that the
students in the class are taught the tools to accomplish the pre-set goals.
Athletes are asked
to set goals for the season. Teams set the goal of winning the championship, and
athletes, coaches and trainers plan the tactics to get the team to their
ultimate goal. Before a season starts, teachers, coaches, management and of
course the players think about what they wish to achieve (this is
pre-contemplation) and this naturally leads to putting together the specific
action plan that will allow the goal to be obtained.
If your goals
involve things such as weight loss, getting into an exercise plan, learning to
read food labels, how to meal plan and so on you have already
pre-contemplated, so once the idea pops into your head, move ahead to the next
stage "making a plan."
Formatting the Plan
Let's say, for sake
of argument, that you have been longing to lose weight and get into better
shape, but have not really done anything about it. How about grabbing a pen, a
piece of paper or even your PDA and writing down what you wish to achieve?
Leave plenty of
room for elaborating on each goal between your bullet points of your ultimate
goals. Use this time to contemplate exactly how you can (and will) achieve your
goals. Your plan needs to be specific in other words, allow yourself to
have methods of determining small or short-term goals, medium-term goals,
long-term goals and of course, your ultimate goals.
For example, if you
are looking to lose weight, one might plan to learn how to read a food label,
learn how to count calories, determine realistic meal plans, sign up for the
weekly newsletters from Lee Labrada (see www.labrada.com
for the personalized coaching plans), plan to weigh in once per week while
setting realistic weight loss goals (1-2 pounds a week) and other such related
ideas.
The plan for
success at any endeavor needs to be written. Writing out your life plan (or
weight loss plan or fitness plan, etc.) will empower you to be accountable to
yourself for planning, staging, achieving and accomplishing each rung on the
ladder to success. Planning allows one to learn in-depth about the topic or area
that one wishes to achieve. Having a coach, a trainer or a partner to join you
in achieving the goal can only help providing a natural support system for
success. Have you ever observed a winner who achieved any goal solely on his or
her own? It's okay to have a team in your corner too.
Take Action
Let's say that by
now you have written three of four realistic goals that you wish to achieve over
the next few months or one-year. Also, let's add that within each of these
goals, you have formatted the plan of attack to achieve your goals you
have taken the correct steps so far, but there is more to do.
Now that you are
armed with a global and a specific plan, it is time to enact your plan. It is
time to take action. Be bold and do not be shy. Go grab yourself information on
what the taking action part of your plan means. This may be information on a
personal trainer or a new pair of running shoes, plus a subscription to a
magazine and this online coaching tool to help motivate you week in and week
out.
For example, if one
of your goals is to gain muscle (with the premise being you already lift
weights), your action plan would be to start keeping a log of your workouts (so
you can note and realize what works for you and where you fail to progress), to
read and implement strength gaining routines into the workout (downloadable from
this site or from magazines such as Menıs Health, Men's Fitness or even The Book
of Muscle by Ian King and Lou Shuler) and other such simple, yet forgettable and
often overlooked ideas.
The gist is simple;
you have the ideas, note your action plan, then make the action a reality. Do
whatever it takes to get on the road to success. Five easy steps are all that it
really takes to be on your road to success, no matter what the goal is.
The Five Steps of Action Success:
1) Lay out
a realistic short and long-term plan.
2) Keep a
diary of your progress on the plan so that you can reformulate your plan as
needed.
3) Utilize
professional services so that you have assistance and a support team in
achieving your goals.
4) TAKE
ACTION
5) Repeat
the actions that it takes for you to achieve your goals until these patterns
become part of your normal routines (this can help from back-slipping and losing
your achievements).
Breaking down the
"Actionable" Steps (using weight control as an example):
Goal
setting each week you must set two small nutrition and fitness
oriented goals to achieve that week. Setting small, but obtainable goals and
reviewing these goals at weekıs end will allow you to mark your progress towards
your larger goal.
Planning
ahead It cannot be said enough, "those who plan, achieve. Those
who fail to plan, fail!" With weight loss or lifestyle enhancement, nothing
happens by chance. Your first right step was in coming to me. Now, it is up to
you to continue planning through goal setting, menu planning (if you plan ahead
what you are going to eat for your meals/snacks) it would make it that much
easier to achieve your goal.
Keeping a
food diary The utility of a food (and exercise) diary is
underappreciated. Having the personal responsibility to note throughout the day
what you eat, the serving size and your frame of mind at the time you are eating
can go a long way in recognizing possible behavior patterns as well as the
quality of your food choices.
Exercise
Daily Exercise burns calories and makes weight loss and sustained
weight loss easier. Do it daily and success is yours. Keeping an exercise diary
can go a long way for both promoting you to be active and for you to track how
you feel and how your exercise performance is as related to the foods that you
are eating.
Mental
toughness to achieve requires willingness to persevere through
trying times. In terms of weight loss, the "hard time" may be a weight loss
plateau or sticking point, jealousy of others or certain social situations.
Positive assurance and self-affirmation is always appropriate, resting on one's
laurels however is not.
Positive
attitude having the belief that you can obtain your goal is the
first step in getting there. Once the mind commits, the body follows. Keep in
mind that exercise helps the body in weight loss and in the preferential loss of
fat weight.
Plan Meals
ahead when wanting to eat healthy, lose weight or know exactly
what you are eating, plan your meals in advance. This means, being cognizant of
when you are going to travel, eat out and need to food shop. Being prepared is
one of the keys to success.
Drink
plenty of water. - The rule of thumb is half your body weight in ounces
of water. For example, if you weigh 200 pounds, drink 100 ounces of total fluid
spread out evenly throughout the day.
Add
Fiber - Aim for 25 to 35 grams of fiber (total fiber) daily. Besides
helping with regularity and maintaining or lowering cholesterol, high-fiber
diets keep your appetite satiated longer.
Tips when
dining out no matter where you eat when you eat out, eat one-half
of the entree, then wait for 10 minutes. Most of the time, you wonıt feel like
eating the rest. That's because waiting in mid-meal gives your stomachıs
stretching sensors time to signal the brain that it is full. In this way, you
can enjoy more of the foods you like, without setting yourself up for
unnecessary weight gain.
When
traveling plan ahead (daily) and do not let yourself ever go more
than four hours without eating (except for when you sleep).
How to Pick a Support Team
Have you ever
watched a medical drama show such as ER? In these types of shows there is
always a physician or three, nurses, medical assistants, clerks, therapists and
so on. When you look at the whole as just described, this defines a support
team. The lead physician running the code or a surgery or whatever has the
support of other physicians, nurses and so on.
Letıs take that
analogy to you and your goals. In our drama, you and your goals are the lead
physician and all of the other team members are the assistants there to help you
achieve the goal. For weight loss, a Registered Dietitian or nutritionist and
smart nutritional products are in order. For exercise, a strength and/or running
coach top the list; for flexibility, perhaps a yoga instructor; for mental
health a psychologist, and for many a life coach can help coordinate
keeping the life in order.
Of course, you can
do all of this yourself. Just find someone that you trust that you can be
accountable to on a weekly basis. I often look at Labrada Coaching and the
personalized newsletters and guidance offered as part of the team approach for
support. Even the most seasoned athletes have assistants that keep them in top
shape, why shouldn't the person who is just starting out on the road to fitness
of wellness do the same? When you have questions, send them to asklee@labrada.com. The additive nature and
synergy of using for example Labrada products while looking to lose weight or
reduce risks of diabetes and heart disease just makes sense. In this vein, the
products join the support team because they reduce the daily thinking of what
you need to do in order to plan out the daily diet.
In others words,
meal and nutritional products that enable you to make your lifestyle easier
while supporting you in obtaining your goals are an invaluable part of the
support team. Embrace these along with the online support as another way to get
the motivation and peer-support especially during any rough patches that may
come along on the road to your goal achievements.
Key Take-home Points
1) Do not
let yourself become stuck in the quagmire of ³pre-contemplation²
2) If you
have an idea, something you wish to obtain or change, write it down and
elaborate upon it.
3) TAKE
ACTION!
4) Inform
your friends, partners and others about your goals get their support.
5) Make
sure that you use this website and the ideas within this article for formulating
and achieving your own success.

Douglas S. Kalman MS, RD is a Director at Miami Research Associates
(www.miamiresearch.com). He is also active with www.sportsnutritionsociety.org
and a consultant to NIKE Inc. He can be contacted through either
website.